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The other day I was listening to Codeseven's "A
Sense Of Coalition" CD, specifically their cover of
"Boys of Summer". Some of it really got
me thinking about the things we used to do back when I
was a kid, when we were free of worry or
responsibility. Now, as I sit here writing this at
the age of 24, I look back and I realize just what we
had.
There were 5 of us: Brad, Kris, Travis, Will &
myself. We would spend every weekend together
usually working on our "fort" or just running
around causing havoc. The older we got, the more
people we started hanging out with and the more we were
exposed to "the real world". Our friend
Mike went to jail for murder (over marijuana), I moved,
Brad got married, Will got married and moved to Florida,
Sean moved to 10 different cities and we don't see him
anymore, Travis pretty much disappeared and I hear he's
married & Kris moved and works all the time.
Other people we used to hang out with have moved,
married, lost it, or a million other things. It
used to be that our main worry was who's house we were
going to stay at and what movie to rent.
What's with all this talk of bills and getting
married? What's with fixing our own meals and
having to deal with an injury ourselves? It's
called growing up, my friend. Friends come, and
unfortunately go. We have to wish them well and
hope that we'll see them again sometime during life's
journey. I've made a lot of friends in everything
that I've done, and I hope that it stays this way, but
in being realistic, it won't. There are people in
this world that I would love to hang out with again, but
I don't even know how to reach them, or they don't want
to be reached. I have to look back at all the fun
we had and hold on to that, because that's it.
I'm glad we took advantage of our youth and managed to
cause trouble everywhere within a 20 mile radius of
Milton, WV. I'm glad that I went out with every
girl that I've ever gone out with (even though I'll
sometimes tell you differently). I'm glad that I
knew Mike, Kris, Brad and the rest of them. I've
learned a lot from all these people and I've had a good
time with all of them. I'll sit you down one day
and tell you all about it. We WERE the boys of
summer.
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